Kink limits ONLINE checklist
Toys: Beneficiary of Bliss.įor covering general sexuality activities, fetishes, BDSM activities. Sexual activitiess: Beneficiary of Bliss. Want! Will… Won’t Charts are tools you can use to help clarify your desires! I have a few different charts you can use, either solo or with your partner. For figuring out if we’re ready for sex with a partner. – Ready or not? The Scarleteen Sex Readiness Checklist. Or, you can print it out using the PDF file or the printer-friendly version and fill it in by hand. You can either just read through it online, using it as a mental self-evaluation tool or talking with a partner as you both scroll through it. Sexuality in general, or combined with kink, fetishes, roleplay…Ĭhecklists with sexual activites, for thinking and talking about each person’s desires, things to try out some time, and each person’s limits. Erotic desires, interests, possibilities and limits. Blanket, water, something to eat, culldes, etc.Activity checklists as conversation starters between partners and people who are getting to know each other.Will you have needed medications (inhaler, for example) and what should your partner do if you need them?.What should be done if there is an emergency?.Is there anything that should be avoided?.Do you have any health concerns that could affect the scene.This part of the negotiation checklist covers any health concerns, relationship details and the need for aftercare. What are you hoping to get out of the scene?.Will you be engaging in humiliation or degradation play?.Marks only where they can’t be seen by clothing/swimsuit/other.Bondage, impact, sensation, pain play, genitorture, etc.This section covers the details of the play being planned. If sexual activity will be involved, what safer sex precautions should be used?.Will sexual activity be involved in this scene?.It is important to be very specific when discussing sexual activity during a scene to avoid misunderstandings. In this section of the negotiation checklist, sexual activity is covered. If not, what are acceptable intoxication levels for each person in the scene?.Under what circumstances should the scene stop if things don’t go well?.Are there any warning signs of bad emotional space?.What are your hard limits (in general and for this scene)?.
We all hear about the importance of negotiation in BDSM play and relationships.